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First of all, it's obvious that neither of your parents are good parents, one, letting the two of you date without setting ground rules and two, not educating either one of you about sex, protection, and consequences of unprotected sex. If you were smart, you would have waited until you were with someone you really love. Believe me, this is just what's called 'puppy love' I experienced it as well at fifteen/sixteen but didn't find true love (and loose my virginity) until I was in my early 20's. Now, I am 28 years old and engaged to be married (no kids).
Engaged at 15 and 16 years old, how can that be legal even? no one is even going to consider marrying you right now, OR giving you a marriage license for that matter. Technically what he did was rape, and he can go to jail for it as you are still under the age of consent, which if you are in the U.S. is 16 in most states. LIVESTRONG.COM States: "Legally Speaking
You should know that the law varies on the age of consent (the age under which it is a crime to have sexual intercourse) in different parts of the world. It usually ranges from age 16 to age 18. This is also true for the United States, although in a few states the legal age is younger than 16. You would be breaking the law if you had sex before the age of consent in your state. Find out what the "consensual sex" age is in your state, especially if you are dating someone older than you are! * See “Age of Consensual Sex."
Read more: http://www.livestrong.com/article/13926-being-ready-for-sex/#ixzz12UlTiiqU
If I were you, you only have two options here and unfortunately neither one of those is keeping this baby and raising it yourselves. For the two of you, financially you aren't going to be able to support this child, even with hand-outs from the government and the hard earned taxpayer dollar (other people work hard to support their families, so why shouldn't you?) Kids are expensive, don't you want whats best for this child? To grow up in an environment where his basic needs will be met, and then some? Where he can wish for a certain toy at christmas and actually get it? or his birthday? Where his parents can afford family vacations so he can travel and see more of the world and learn about different cultures and the environment around him? instead of whining to you and his father that his friends get to go on vacation during the summer and that because the family is poor, you won't get to?
Please, put this poor child up for adoption or get an abortion, the both of you aren't ready for this child right now ok? you aren't mature and responsible enough to make the tough decisions that you need when raising a child when it comes down to it. Both of you need to put off the engagement too, wait until are older, say 25+ and see if you feel the same about each other then. When you feel you are ready, move in with each other (it totally changed everything, believe me! I have been living with my fiancee for four years, engaged on Sept 25th 2010)
My last suggestion to you would be to go rent the movie 'Riding In Cars With Boys' A single mother, (Reese Witherspoon) with dreams of becoming a writer, has a son at the age of 15 in 1965, and goes through a failed marriage with the drug-addicted father. This movie also has Brittany Murphy playing the young mothers best friend, who becomes a young mother herself.
More on it here: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0200027/
First of all, it's obvious that neither of your parents are good parents, one, letting the two of you date without setting ground rules and two, not educating either one of you about sex, protection, and consequences of unprotected sex. If you were smart, you would have waited until you were with someone you really love. Believe me, this is just what's called 'puppy love' I experienced it as well at fifteen/sixteen but didn't find true love (and loose my virginity) until I was in my early 20's. Now, I am 28 years old and engaged to be married (no kids).
Engaged at 15 and 16 years old, how can that be legal even? no one is even going to consider marrying you right now, OR giving you a marriage license for that matter. Technically what he did was rape, and he can go to jail for it as you are still under the age of consent, which if you are in the U.S. is 16 in most states. LIVESTRONG.COM States: "Legally Speaking
You should know that the law varies on the age of consent (the age under which it is a crime to have sexual intercourse) in different parts of the world. It usually ranges from age 16 to age 18. This is also true for the United States, although in a few states the legal age is younger than 16. You would be breaking the law if you had sex before the age of consent in your state. Find out what the "consensual sex" age is in your state, especially if you are dating someone older than you are! * See “Age of Consensual Sex."
Read more: http://www.livestrong.com/article/13926-being-ready-for-sex/#ixzz12UlTiiqU
If I were you, you only have two options here and unfortunately neither one of those is keeping this baby and raising it yourselves. For the two of you, financially you aren't going to be able to support this child, even with hand-outs from the government and the hard earned taxpayer dollar (other people work hard to support their families, so why shouldn't you?) Kids are expensive, don't you want whats best for this child? To grow up in an environment where his basic needs will be met, and then some? Where he can wish for a certain toy at christmas and actually get it? or his birthday? Where his parents can afford family vacations so he can travel and see more of the world and learn about different cultures and the environment around him? instead of whining to you and his father that his friends get to go on vacation during the summer and that because the family is poor, you won't get to?
Please, put this poor child up for adoption or get an abortion, the both of you aren't ready for this child right now ok? you aren't mature and responsible enough to make the tough decisions that you need when raising a child when it comes down to it. Both of you need to put off the engagement too, wait until are older, say 25+ and see if you feel the same about each other then. When you feel you are ready, move in with each other (it totally changed everything, believe me! I have been living with my fiancee for four years, engaged on Sept 25th 2010)
My last suggestion to you would be to go rent the movie 'Riding In Cars With Boys' A single mother, (Reese Witherspoon) with dreams of becoming a writer, has a son at the age of 15 in 1965, and goes through a failed marriage with the drug-addicted father. This movie also has Brittany Murphy playing the young mothers best friend, who becomes a young mother herself.
More on it here: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0200027/
Good films for my kid sisters?
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My sisters are 9 and 11, I'm thinking of getting them some DVDs for christmas but I'm finding it hard to think of what to get them. My initial thoughts were Bring it On and Juno, but I'm not sure if these films are a bit grown up for them. They are rated a (uk) 12A, so legally they can watch them but I'm still a bit worried about being a bad influence.
Anyway, what films would you recommend for girls aged 9 and 11?
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1) Toy Story 1 , 2 & 3 (All Good)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114709/
2) The Polar Express (2004)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0338348/
3) The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe (2005)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0363771/
4) Shrek (2001)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0126029/
5) How To Train Your Dragon (2010)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0892769/
6) Finding Nemo (2003)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0266543/
7) The Lion King (1994)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0110357/
8) Ratatouille (2007)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0382932/
9) Monsters , Inc (2001)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0198781/
10)Ice Age (2002)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0268380/
1) Toy Story 1 , 2 & 3 (All Good)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114709/
2) The Polar Express (2004)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0338348/
3) The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe (2005)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0363771/
4) Shrek (2001)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0126029/
5) How To Train Your Dragon (2010)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0892769/
6) Finding Nemo (2003)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0266543/
7) The Lion King (1994)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0110357/
8) Ratatouille (2007)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0382932/
9) Monsters , Inc (2001)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0198781/
10)Ice Age (2002)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0268380/
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