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BQ: What do you do with the toy? I got a book from my ChickFilA meal, and I'll probably just give it to my niece and nephew.
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Apples or not, who the hell gives kids a vat of caramel? Some asswipe with fertility issues, that's who.
How to make the days easier with my two year old daughter?
Amanda E
I have a two year old baby girl that is out of control. Tried time outs, tried spanking, even taking toys away nothing works. I am a single mother. Her dad has never seen her. Does not want to be a part of her life. Been off of work for a bit over a year due to back surgery. About to pull my hair out. Can anyone help me go one day without raising my voice or spanking her. She refuses to listen. Being a single mother has made me a stronger person but i wouldnot wish it on my worst enemy. Can anyone relate to my problems? And give advice?
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I have a 2 yr old daughter too and I can relate to demands of raising her. First off it sounds like you have had a rough year with your personal life. I know motherhood is hard work and being single and with a hurt back must be really difficult. Hang in there. You said it yourself, you're a strong woman!
With that said, did you ever consider that maybe your giving off anxious and unhappy signals that could be affecting your child's well being. I honestly don't mean to sound rude but I'm saying this as a mom, if you were out of work due the past year due to back surgery how could you possibly handle the physical aspects of taking care of a baby and now toddler properly. I'm seriously not trying to be critical but sounds like you need to reach out for some help.Do you hold her a lot and give her enough love and attention. do you get down on the ground and play with her and take walks and bring her outside. Regarding spanking...she will just hit you and others and throw tantrum when things don't go her way because that's what she's learning. you set the tone in the household. If you are constantly raising your voice, or unhappy then you need to change that. she won't respond to that. I saw this on supernanny once....pretend you are being monitered or videotaped all day. would you be embarrassed of your own behavior and the tone you take with your daughter. Are you interacting with her ALL day(reading drawing, singing, playing??) Is your daughter sleeping comfortably. Because a rested kid is a happy kid. Naptime and bedtime are ideally ithe SAME time every day in a cool quiet dark room(or use an air filter for white noise) . Another thing to consider is food. There is a direct correlation between unhealthy diets and poor temperment with kids. And meals and snacks should also be served idealy same times everyday. Not sure if relavant but keep tv time limited and if she does watch make sure it's age appropriate bc that can get her anxious as well.
The more she learns to communicate the better she will listen. Until then you really need to be patient with her. She's only two and she's still learning everything about the world around her. Two year olds can be whiney and stubborn and bratty. they are still learning boundaries and testing authority, it's normal. How you respond and react is key and eventually she will pick up on your demeanor if you are consistent. Remember you set the tone of the household and you can turn things around.
Good luck to you.
I have a 2 yr old daughter too and I can relate to demands of raising her. First off it sounds like you have had a rough year with your personal life. I know motherhood is hard work and being single and with a hurt back must be really difficult. Hang in there. You said it yourself, you're a strong woman!
With that said, did you ever consider that maybe your giving off anxious and unhappy signals that could be affecting your child's well being. I honestly don't mean to sound rude but I'm saying this as a mom, if you were out of work due the past year due to back surgery how could you possibly handle the physical aspects of taking care of a baby and now toddler properly. I'm seriously not trying to be critical but sounds like you need to reach out for some help.Do you hold her a lot and give her enough love and attention. do you get down on the ground and play with her and take walks and bring her outside. Regarding spanking...she will just hit you and others and throw tantrum when things don't go her way because that's what she's learning. you set the tone in the household. If you are constantly raising your voice, or unhappy then you need to change that. she won't respond to that. I saw this on supernanny once....pretend you are being monitered or videotaped all day. would you be embarrassed of your own behavior and the tone you take with your daughter. Are you interacting with her ALL day(reading drawing, singing, playing??) Is your daughter sleeping comfortably. Because a rested kid is a happy kid. Naptime and bedtime are ideally ithe SAME time every day in a cool quiet dark room(or use an air filter for white noise) . Another thing to consider is food. There is a direct correlation between unhealthy diets and poor temperment with kids. And meals and snacks should also be served idealy same times everyday. Not sure if relavant but keep tv time limited and if she does watch make sure it's age appropriate bc that can get her anxious as well.
The more she learns to communicate the better she will listen. Until then you really need to be patient with her. She's only two and she's still learning everything about the world around her. Two year olds can be whiney and stubborn and bratty. they are still learning boundaries and testing authority, it's normal. How you respond and react is key and eventually she will pick up on your demeanor if you are consistent. Remember you set the tone of the household and you can turn things around.
Good luck to you.
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