Do you think today's kids are better off than kids 50 year ago?

thoseweret

With the modern world's electronic gadgets, the Internet, rules and regulations, political correctness, school standards, two-income homes, suburban living, etc., are children better off than 50 years ago? Or worse off?

Answer
That depends on which kids and what you mean by "better off." In general, kids today have more financial security, better health care, more educational and career opportunities, are safer and more protected, and face less prejudice and discrimination than kids of the 50's. On the other hand, they face more pressure to achieve, are more likely to experience their parents' divorce, spend more time in front of computers, eat less healthy foods, get less exercise, have to worry more about strangers and predators, and are expected to be mature at an early age.

I would say neither is better or worse than the other. But I personally would prefer the kind of childhood I had, which was closer to the generation of the 50's. I've tried to give my kids some of those same experiences.

Why have a career and dump your kid's in daycare?

Bone Daddy

Is your expensive home.cars,clothes,vacations,gadgets, jewelery or just keeping up with the Joneses worth dumping your kids in daycare? Are you trying to prove your independent pride from your hubby? If your divorced, this is not addressed to you. Who's raising your kids?
So having possessions is more than spending quality time and being a family that loves and care for eachother?

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Ummmm....no, and clearly you're asking this question in a jerky manner. But for your information...

I am a full-time working mom who has 4 small children. Do I want to be working? NO! Am I paying for expensive cars, an expensive home, clothes or a vacation? If you consider my 2004 Toyota mini van, our nicest car, expensive, then yes. If you consider our rented home an extravagance, then yes. My clothes are coming unraveled at the seams and my shoes have scuffs on them...but if those are fancy to you, then yes. My nicest and pretty much only piece of jewelry is my wedding ring, but if that is excessive jewelry, then call me guilty. I haven't had a vacation in years, but my husband and I did splurge a little and had dinner at Applebees for our anniversary last year.

For your information, I don't "dump" my kids anywhere. I spent a lot of painstaking hours choosing a nanny who comes to our home each day. I work closely with her to be sure she does fun and educational things with my kids instead of watching tv all day. I get home at 5:30 pm and don't go to bed until 1:30 am because after the kids go to bed is when I get started cleaning the house, doing laundry and having some quiet time to myself. The few hours between my arrival home and their bedtime is precious family time.

I am not trying to prove independence from my husband...I am hopelessly dependent on his love and support to get through every day.

I work because I love my family. If my husband and I didn't work, we would not have a home, food, or clothing for them. This is not my ideal...I spend countless nights crying about the things I am missing, and hours praying that God will bring a change so I can be home with them again. I was a stay at home mom for 5 years, but the business we sunk every penny we had into failed, and instead of taking the easy way out and declaring bankrupcy from our responsibility, we are taking care of our debt the old fashioned way...paying it back.

Before you go labeling others by declaring all full-time working moms people who "dump their children in daycare" I suggest you try walking in my shoes for one week. I doubt (from the pompous tone of your question) that you would last even one week.

I am proudly raising my children in the best way I can, and I don't need idiots like you judging me.

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Old 90s Educational Game for PC?

John M

All I can remember was there was a short kid, maybe had a hat on, has some sort of electrical gun or something, and seemed to be stuck in a science lab at night. You had to solve riddles. That's about all I can remember! Thanks....

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had a hat on? probably one of the Super Solvers games
either Midnight Rescue
or Gizmos&Gadgets

What are some good computer games for kids that involve math and logic?

Dustin Pad

My older kid played "Zoombinis: Logical Journey" (but the program won't run in Windows 8). Anything similar would be great for my 7 year old.

Answer
I used to play a lot of games by The Learning Company and Humongous Entertainment.

The learning company had many great educational games like:
*ClueFinders (A series which uses a lot of maths and logic skills)
*Gizmos and Gadgets (Get parts to build vehicles to race against the evil villain)
*Outnumbered (same series as Gizmos and Gadgets)
*Treasure series (cove, galaxy, mountain, math storm)

Humongous Entertainment had a lot of problem solving games that were really fun and educational at the same time. Click and point basically.
*Putt Putt
*Pajama Sam
*Spy Fox
*Freddi Fish

I am not too sure if these games work on the newer computers but you can definitely get the Humongous Entertainment games to work using SCUMMVM (an emulator that allows a lot of old games to be played_

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Children's electronic gadgets Vs playing outside in the nature?

- surabaya

Nowadays there are thousands of different kinds of toys for children out there. However, I find it sad that these toys (especially the electronic gadgets) make children "loose contact" with nature? (i mean, quite a lot of them do not really play outside anymore). What do you think about this?

Answer
I agree. The concept of a lot of them is to be educational, atleast the ones for little kids, and that's all good. My daughter's got the leap pad and the leapster game system (and others!) and it's cool because she learns while she's
playing, but there is no substitute for hands on learning with another human being. We can't expect our children to learn everything from an electronic device, or even a book. We go outside and she can ask questions and we can discover things and it is so much more enriching to her mind. That totally beats sitting inside with some expensive toys because we get to spend time with each other at the same time.

I think that it also has a lot to do with the fact that a lot of moms are really busy these days. I think a big idea behind buying some of the toys is that it can keep the kids occupied by themselves so mom can get some work done, or just get a rest. Granted, if you're going to buy them, atleast get something educational instead of something that will load their minds with crap. Children need to have some sense of imagination as well to be mentally and emotionally stable. Nature presents a wonderful inspiration for children to be able to create their own fantasies. Not only that, playing outside and getting fresh air can aleve restlessness and boredom for children as well, allowing them to get a better nights sleep.

Neat gadget for a kid?

mojo

I'm looking for a cool electronic gadget for my 9 year old daughter. I gave my wife an electronic Franklin Planner and my daughter likes using it. However, I'm looking for something closer for her age or a little older age. I'm not looking for a cell phone or a gameboy. Thanks for any ideas

Answer
V-tech games

Love them all.
We are getting the piano version.


Playschool has a kid- "Ipod" like thing that you can download the great kids songs and educational tools from as well.

Happy hunting Santa.
Mine have bikes and gear and some other stuff.

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Is a plasma ball a safe gadget for a ten year old boy to have?

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Tea

I must admit that electricity scares the heck out of me, and I want to make sure that I'm not being overprotective. Are there any dangers to be aware of when giving one these lamps to a child (besides the obvious safe operation needed for any electrical device)?

Answer
Notwithstanding the fearmongering comments above, a plasma ball is perfectly safe. It will not generate waves or fields or anything else that would endanger a kid's life.

That said, a plasma ball is not particularly educational. If it inspires him to learn more, great, but if education is your objective, a kit of science or electronic projects would be a better choice.

Who do you believe will do better in creating higher paying jobs, Democrats or Republicans?

Alan

Both Democrats and Republicans agree on one thing for sure...we need more jobs! The problem is that they differ in how to create those higher paying jobs. Democrats believe in a Keynesian approach by increasing infrastructure spending by asking the upper class to share a higher percentage of the burden during a recession, and the Republicans seem to believe reducing taxes and regulations will stimulate entrepreneurship to create higher paying jobs. Both appear to have historical examples. I want to know which is the better example, and why?

Answer
Well this, "is so, so clear... Democrats "just love to spend" money on not just infrastructure, but like FDR, (back in a day) "create programs" that (were/are revelant) to "the needs" of the people during their time. Infrastructure, (is one great avenue) in job creation, but, the world "is ever changing", and at such a rapid pace from a technological standpoint, that America (as President Obama) has said, needs "to keep in step" with that profound fact, and beef up the "educational skills" in the way of technology and starting with our kids, like "the handle" we had on (making and creating) great cars... we need "to outbeat" the Asians, when it comes to "creativity with technology." We "need to produce" more Steve Jobs, that is all there is to it!!!!! (smile...)

**The Asians, "have us beat", (3 to 1) with that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Like Howard Hughes, said regarding aviation, "technology" (along with ecology/substainability) "is the wave" of the future, and that "is where" we need to go and be as Americans, here in the United States..."OUTDOING EVERYONE" ELSE. Also, it would not hurt, to utilize this "technology" for other uses, not just here in America, but world-wide like:

1. Aids/Medical Equipment
2. Environmental/Green Substainability
3. Food Sources
4. Automotive
5. Gadgets, of economic, effective and efficient use (like the Swedes and Germany)
and last but "most certainly" not least...
6. "EDUCATION, EDUCATION" AND "MORE EDUCATION", this also is why, "the creativity and ingenuity" is getting lost, on our part as America. Europeans somewhat, "laughs at us", from that end as well... (dah, never mind)

That is just a few thoughts and examples...(smile)

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Who do you believe will do better in creating higher paying jobs, Democrats or Republicans?

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Alan

Both Democrats and Republicans agree on one thing for sure...we need more jobs! The problem is that they differ in how to create those higher paying jobs. Democrats believe in a Keynesian approach by increasing infrastructure spending by asking the upper class to share a higher percentage of the burden during a recession, and the Republicans seem to believe reducing taxes and regulations will stimulate entrepreneurship to create higher paying jobs. Both appear to have historical examples. I want to know which is the better example, and why?

Answer
Well this, "is so, so clear... Democrats "just love to spend" money on not just infrastructure, but like FDR, (back in a day) "create programs" that (were/are revelant) to "the needs" of the people during their time. Infrastructure, (is one great avenue) in job creation, but, the world "is ever changing", and at such a rapid pace from a technological standpoint, that America (as President Obama) has said, needs "to keep in step" with that profound fact, and beef up the "educational skills" in the way of technology and starting with our kids, like "the handle" we had on (making and creating) great cars... we need "to outbeat" the Asians, when it comes to "creativity with technology." We "need to produce" more Steve Jobs, that is all there is to it!!!!! (smile...)

**The Asians, "have us beat", (3 to 1) with that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Like Howard Hughes, said regarding aviation, "technology" (along with ecology/substainability) "is the wave" of the future, and that "is where" we need to go and be as Americans, here in the United States..."OUTDOING EVERYONE" ELSE. Also, it would not hurt, to utilize this "technology" for other uses, not just here in America, but world-wide like:

1. Aids/Medical Equipment
2. Environmental/Green Substainability
3. Food Sources
4. Automotive
5. Gadgets, of economic, effective and efficient use (like the Swedes and Germany)
and last but "most certainly" not least...
6. "EDUCATION, EDUCATION" AND "MORE EDUCATION", this also is why, "the creativity and ingenuity" is getting lost, on our part as America. Europeans somewhat, "laughs at us", from that end as well... (dah, never mind)

That is just a few thoughts and examples...(smile)

My friend has cool gadgets and always manages to impress me during sleepovers. How do I do the same to her?

Jinx

My friend has gadgets such as a Nintendo DS, Game Boy Advance, and Wii. She also has a pet dog. When I go over for sleepovers, I always have lots of fun at her house. But when she comes over, I don't know how to use the time since I don't have the GBA or Wii. We both aren't big fans of games and we'd like something to do. We both have a love of animals and I have a pet hamster. How do I make a good sleepover?

Answer
You could ask her to bring over some of the gadgets so that you can play at your house too. But if you don't like that idea, then I wouldn't try to compete in the same area. Rather, don't try to compete in the area of technology, because it sounds like she will always be one step ahead with that.

That doesn't mean that technology is the only fun thing though! Think about what you do at your house that is fun to you. Share those things with her. Is there something fun to do outside? Do you have board games? Particularly good movies? Could you get some craft supplies and make something? Baking food is always fun. You could decorate cookies together o there's always decorating a cake - you both could decorate your own privately and then share them to see how different they are.

If you both really like animals, and you have a hamster, you could think of something fun to do with the hamster. Maybe make a fun contraption for the hamster to play in (like a big maze if you have an active hamster!). Or build it a house.

There's a lot to make sleepovers fun and it doesn't have to involve games! In fact, it's much better for you in the long run if you do something active (like exercise) or "educational" (educational can definitely be fun!). All of the above will probably teach you a lot more than playing video games for hours. Ask your parents to look for books on fun science experiments (or search online for fun science experiments for kids). There are lots of really fun, surprising things for people of all ages to do. Next time try mixing some corn starch and water and see how weird that substance is... :)

Overall, let it be something that's fun to you and then likely it will be fun to her too.

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Are teens showing signs of corruption these days?

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Mercer

I don't think so but since I am in my 30s and haven't been by any local schools, I like to know how teens are doing these days.

Are the kids learning more with the internet age? I have a lot of hope for them, even with all the problems the youth carries early on. Teens always seem to have their share of worries.

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Yes and No... I am early 40's with a son who is 23 yrs old. I have many friends who still have teenagers in the home.

Honestly, I am appalled at some of the things teens are doing these days...mostly because their parents don't actively monitor them, and teach them better. From sexting to nearly naked web cam chats...to shoplifting, theft/burglary, identity theft/fake ID's, problematic drug use, and trouble with the law for various reasons.

Teens have historically challenged authority, made stupid mistakes, and the like. It is a natural part of growing up and 'figuring it all out'. What surprises me is the ease and opportunity for corruption of young minds that the internet brings. I know 10 yr olds with iPhones, iPads, or other means to access the internet at will...and unregulated. Most teens know how to navigate easily, even circumvent parental controls. Driver's licenses aren't handed out just because a child wants one. There are benchmark requirements to obtain one...age, experience, insurance, etc. So, why aren't there such requirements in the average household for the internet? Lack of diligence by parents, and innocent spoiled kids who learn all they do from friends, internet, TV, movies, and such.

Young minds are impressionable. If a teenage honor student's friend from the cheerleading squad happens to 'show her the ropes' on social networking and sex-camming older guys for popularity purposes...well, is she going to do it? Depends on her instilled sense of morals and character...which is taught by her parents. It's the same as drinking and drug use. All a matter of choices and whether it's readily available...and what their friends are into.

No doubt the internet has it's good and bad. It can be an educational resource, a tool for communication, and more. But, on the bad side...concerning our children, it is full of predators, scammers, sex, violence, and sensationalism far beyond TV, video games and movies that are easily monitored.

I had a conversation with a friend this weekend who has a 5 yr old grandson. He woke up early, and his parents weren't ready to get up (it was extremely early in the morning...it was his birthday). He often grabs mom's phone to play games on it to pass time. Ok, I understand that. However, someone at one point showed him how to access internet on that iPhone and look at YouTube. His mother was shocked to find out he was watching pole dancing videos.. OMG! REALLY?

It can be an innocent thing where a child runs across something like this. But, teens often seek out 'cool' or 'interesting' things to share with friends...or sex things out of pure curiosity.

Go to the mall or to the movies some time. Look at how the teens act without parents around. Look at how the girls dress. Listen to the conversations they are having. See how people are so 'hooked' by their gadgets (phones, pads, etc). The internet is an 'alternate reality' with more interaction than TV and games. It is access to the world in all it's ways-good and bad, and vast.

It all boils down to responsibility, maturity, monitoring, parenting, morals and character taught at home.

What is a better buy an IPAD or a Kindle Fire for children?

Jacqueline

I have a 5yr old and a 21 month old. I been wanting to get a tablet for their educational games and books. I read to my kids everyday but the library selection is not that great and kind of outdated. I searched amazon for new kids books and their are many good ones about character, starting a new school etc.. but of course it can get expensive. So I thought maybe I can get a tablet and borrow books through amazon prime (not sure how it works) or other options out there. Also streaming or downloading movies. Can movies be downloaded so they can be watched without a WIFI connection so they can watch them in the car. Please help! Thanks

Answer
IMO Kindle Fire HD would be the better option. As there is no use for spending a huge amount for iPad when the Kindle Fire HD can do most of the things your 5 YO would want.

Here you would be able to find the Kindle Fire HD:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00CU0NSCU/ref=fs_jw&tag=aebmx-20

New models of Kindle Fire HD have been released and would be available by Oct 2 and few coming out on 11th oct.

iPad is an expensive gadget for a 5 YO and frankly overspent money. Where you can get other better things along with Kindle Fire HD.

Hope this helped!

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Is a plasma ball a safe gadget for a ten year old boy to have?

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Tea

I must admit that electricity scares the heck out of me, and I want to make sure that I'm not being overprotective. Are there any dangers to be aware of when giving one these lamps to a child (besides the obvious safe operation needed for any electrical device)?

Answer
Notwithstanding the fearmongering comments above, a plasma ball is perfectly safe. It will not generate waves or fields or anything else that would endanger a kid's life.

That said, a plasma ball is not particularly educational. If it inspires him to learn more, great, but if education is your objective, a kit of science or electronic projects would be a better choice.

Who do you believe will do better in creating higher paying jobs, Democrats or Republicans?

Alan

Both Democrats and Republicans agree on one thing for sure...we need more jobs! The problem is that they differ in how to create those higher paying jobs. Democrats believe in a Keynesian approach by increasing infrastructure spending by asking the upper class to share a higher percentage of the burden during a recession, and the Republicans seem to believe reducing taxes and regulations will stimulate entrepreneurship to create higher paying jobs. Both appear to have historical examples. I want to know which is the better example, and why?

Answer
Well this, "is so, so clear... Democrats "just love to spend" money on not just infrastructure, but like FDR, (back in a day) "create programs" that (were/are revelant) to "the needs" of the people during their time. Infrastructure, (is one great avenue) in job creation, but, the world "is ever changing", and at such a rapid pace from a technological standpoint, that America (as President Obama) has said, needs "to keep in step" with that profound fact, and beef up the "educational skills" in the way of technology and starting with our kids, like "the handle" we had on (making and creating) great cars... we need "to outbeat" the Asians, when it comes to "creativity with technology." We "need to produce" more Steve Jobs, that is all there is to it!!!!! (smile...)

**The Asians, "have us beat", (3 to 1) with that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Like Howard Hughes, said regarding aviation, "technology" (along with ecology/substainability) "is the wave" of the future, and that "is where" we need to go and be as Americans, here in the United States..."OUTDOING EVERYONE" ELSE. Also, it would not hurt, to utilize this "technology" for other uses, not just here in America, but world-wide like:

1. Aids/Medical Equipment
2. Environmental/Green Substainability
3. Food Sources
4. Automotive
5. Gadgets, of economic, effective and efficient use (like the Swedes and Germany)
and last but "most certainly" not least...
6. "EDUCATION, EDUCATION" AND "MORE EDUCATION", this also is why, "the creativity and ingenuity" is getting lost, on our part as America. Europeans somewhat, "laughs at us", from that end as well... (dah, never mind)

That is just a few thoughts and examples...(smile)

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Who do you believe will do better in creating higher paying jobs, Democrats or Republicans?

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Alan

Both Democrats and Republicans agree on one thing for sure...we need more jobs! The problem is that they differ in how to create those higher paying jobs. Democrats believe in a Keynesian approach by increasing infrastructure spending by asking the upper class to share a higher percentage of the burden during a recession, and the Republicans seem to believe reducing taxes and regulations will stimulate entrepreneurship to create higher paying jobs. Both appear to have historical examples. I want to know which is the better example, and why?

Answer
Well this, "is so, so clear... Democrats "just love to spend" money on not just infrastructure, but like FDR, (back in a day) "create programs" that (were/are revelant) to "the needs" of the people during their time. Infrastructure, (is one great avenue) in job creation, but, the world "is ever changing", and at such a rapid pace from a technological standpoint, that America (as President Obama) has said, needs "to keep in step" with that profound fact, and beef up the "educational skills" in the way of technology and starting with our kids, like "the handle" we had on (making and creating) great cars... we need "to outbeat" the Asians, when it comes to "creativity with technology." We "need to produce" more Steve Jobs, that is all there is to it!!!!! (smile...)

**The Asians, "have us beat", (3 to 1) with that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Like Howard Hughes, said regarding aviation, "technology" (along with ecology/substainability) "is the wave" of the future, and that "is where" we need to go and be as Americans, here in the United States..."OUTDOING EVERYONE" ELSE. Also, it would not hurt, to utilize this "technology" for other uses, not just here in America, but world-wide like:

1. Aids/Medical Equipment
2. Environmental/Green Substainability
3. Food Sources
4. Automotive
5. Gadgets, of economic, effective and efficient use (like the Swedes and Germany)
and last but "most certainly" not least...
6. "EDUCATION, EDUCATION" AND "MORE EDUCATION", this also is why, "the creativity and ingenuity" is getting lost, on our part as America. Europeans somewhat, "laughs at us", from that end as well... (dah, never mind)

That is just a few thoughts and examples...(smile)

My friend has cool gadgets and always manages to impress me during sleepovers. How do I do the same to her?

Jinx

My friend has gadgets such as a Nintendo DS, Game Boy Advance, and Wii. She also has a pet dog. When I go over for sleepovers, I always have lots of fun at her house. But when she comes over, I don't know how to use the time since I don't have the GBA or Wii. We both aren't big fans of games and we'd like something to do. We both have a love of animals and I have a pet hamster. How do I make a good sleepover?

Answer
You could ask her to bring over some of the gadgets so that you can play at your house too. But if you don't like that idea, then I wouldn't try to compete in the same area. Rather, don't try to compete in the area of technology, because it sounds like she will always be one step ahead with that.

That doesn't mean that technology is the only fun thing though! Think about what you do at your house that is fun to you. Share those things with her. Is there something fun to do outside? Do you have board games? Particularly good movies? Could you get some craft supplies and make something? Baking food is always fun. You could decorate cookies together o there's always decorating a cake - you both could decorate your own privately and then share them to see how different they are.

If you both really like animals, and you have a hamster, you could think of something fun to do with the hamster. Maybe make a fun contraption for the hamster to play in (like a big maze if you have an active hamster!). Or build it a house.

There's a lot to make sleepovers fun and it doesn't have to involve games! In fact, it's much better for you in the long run if you do something active (like exercise) or "educational" (educational can definitely be fun!). All of the above will probably teach you a lot more than playing video games for hours. Ask your parents to look for books on fun science experiments (or search online for fun science experiments for kids). There are lots of really fun, surprising things for people of all ages to do. Next time try mixing some corn starch and water and see how weird that substance is... :)

Overall, let it be something that's fun to you and then likely it will be fun to her too.

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Best educational gadget for preschoolers and elementary age kids?

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Q. I'm looking for a nice educational gadget for my 4 year old son. I thought I was going to get a LeapPad but then I heard about the Innotab and Nabi and other tablets and learning tools and now I'm not sure. Some entertainment value is fine but I'm learning primarily for something my son will love but it's educational. Thanks!
I'm looking, not learning lol
Money is an object so I def can't do an Ipad lol

Answer
We got a leapPad for my son last year and he loved it. He is a pretty good reader now and we still use it. The great thing is you can always by more advanced books for the leapPad as he gets older so he will be able to use it for a while. My son can read really well now and it was probally his favorite gift last year.

The Tag reading system and the smart cycle are also really fun and educational items for children

Are teens showing signs of corruption these days?

Mercer

I don't think so but since I am in my 30s and haven't been by any local schools, I like to know how teens are doing these days.

Are the kids learning more with the internet age? I have a lot of hope for them, even with all the problems the youth carries early on. Teens always seem to have their share of worries.

Answer
Yes and No... I am early 40's with a son who is 23 yrs old. I have many friends who still have teenagers in the home.

Honestly, I am appalled at some of the things teens are doing these days...mostly because their parents don't actively monitor them, and teach them better. From sexting to nearly naked web cam chats...to shoplifting, theft/burglary, identity theft/fake ID's, problematic drug use, and trouble with the law for various reasons.

Teens have historically challenged authority, made stupid mistakes, and the like. It is a natural part of growing up and 'figuring it all out'. What surprises me is the ease and opportunity for corruption of young minds that the internet brings. I know 10 yr olds with iPhones, iPads, or other means to access the internet at will...and unregulated. Most teens know how to navigate easily, even circumvent parental controls. Driver's licenses aren't handed out just because a child wants one. There are benchmark requirements to obtain one...age, experience, insurance, etc. So, why aren't there such requirements in the average household for the internet? Lack of diligence by parents, and innocent spoiled kids who learn all they do from friends, internet, TV, movies, and such.

Young minds are impressionable. If a teenage honor student's friend from the cheerleading squad happens to 'show her the ropes' on social networking and sex-camming older guys for popularity purposes...well, is she going to do it? Depends on her instilled sense of morals and character...which is taught by her parents. It's the same as drinking and drug use. All a matter of choices and whether it's readily available...and what their friends are into.

No doubt the internet has it's good and bad. It can be an educational resource, a tool for communication, and more. But, on the bad side...concerning our children, it is full of predators, scammers, sex, violence, and sensationalism far beyond TV, video games and movies that are easily monitored.

I had a conversation with a friend this weekend who has a 5 yr old grandson. He woke up early, and his parents weren't ready to get up (it was extremely early in the morning...it was his birthday). He often grabs mom's phone to play games on it to pass time. Ok, I understand that. However, someone at one point showed him how to access internet on that iPhone and look at YouTube. His mother was shocked to find out he was watching pole dancing videos.. OMG! REALLY?

It can be an innocent thing where a child runs across something like this. But, teens often seek out 'cool' or 'interesting' things to share with friends...or sex things out of pure curiosity.

Go to the mall or to the movies some time. Look at how the teens act without parents around. Look at how the girls dress. Listen to the conversations they are having. See how people are so 'hooked' by their gadgets (phones, pads, etc). The internet is an 'alternate reality' with more interaction than TV and games. It is access to the world in all it's ways-good and bad, and vast.

It all boils down to responsibility, maturity, monitoring, parenting, morals and character taught at home.

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Children's electronic gadgets Vs playing outside in the nature?

Q. Nowadays there are thousands of different kinds of toys for children out there. However, I find it sad that these toys (especially the electronic gadgets) make children "loose contact" with nature? (i mean, quite a lot of them do not really play outside anymore). What do you think about this?

A. I agree. The concept of a lot of them is to be educational, atleast the ones for little kids, and that's all good. My daughter's got the leap pad and the leapster game system (and others!) and it's cool because she learns while she's
playing, but there is no substitute for hands on learning with another human being. We can't expect our children to learn everything from an electronic device, or even a book. We go outside and she can ask questions and we can discover things and it is so much more enriching to her mind. That totally beats sitting inside with some expensive toys because we get to spend time with each other at the same time.

I think that it also has a lot to do with the fact that a lot of moms are really busy these days. I think a big idea behind buying some of the toys is that it can keep the kids occupied by themselves so mom can get some work done, or just get a rest. Granted, if you're going to buy them, atleast get something educational instead of something that will load their minds with crap. Children need to have some sense of imagination as well to be mentally and emotionally stable. Nature presents a wonderful inspiration for children to be able to create their own fantasies. Not only that, playing outside and getting fresh air can aleve restlessness and boredom for children as well, allowing them to get a better nights sleep.

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What are the major problems in our educational systems??

Q.

A. Kids are forced to act like the kids in their age group, regardless of maturity level.
Sports have taken over as the priority.
Teachers are more worried about tenure and insurance benefits than teaching individual children. (Oh sure, they make a big SHOW of being concerned, but when the bell rings, they are just as fast to get to their cars as anyone.)
Gadgets have taken over the classrooms as more important than critical thinking.
Too much time and money is spent on teaching things that kids already know, or that their parents should be teaching (since we live in a fairly literate society, most kids should be required to read before starting school).
Kids start school too soon in most cases. They need to learn to behave and bond with family first.
Bus driving has become a contract sport to the lowest bidder, not a carefully planned and monitored part of the school districts.
Education has become something that 'someone else does' to our kids, rather than a part of life. Entertainment (including sports) has become more important and it shows in the way people respond to school boards and the way that schools have become 'activity' and administration -heavy.
Children will grow up, regardless of what we do. It is best to treat them like the individuals that they are, rather than force them all to squeeze through the molds of a very out-of-touch system that is run by emotional politics rather than critical design and thought.

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What happened to the golden age of children's television?

Q. for the past 7-8 years cartoons have been utter crap

A. Society demanded that cartoon shows be "dumbed down" and educational. Parents became wimps and freak out if their kids hear a curse word or see violence in old cartoon shows. (Which is why I prefer the original Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles to the new one) and why I won't be letting my kids watch the stupid stuff on today. I am a kid of the 90s-2000s. This is what I remember watching:
Loony Toons (who was the idiot who took this off the air?)
Tales of the Crypt Keeper (the cartoon, though I did occassionally watch the show)
Sonic the Hedgehog (again the original, not the one today)
Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (the original)
Are You Afraid of the Dark (part of SNICK that ran from 5-9PM Monday through Friday)-will buy this
Land of the Lost
Dinosuar
Legends of the Hidden Temple (never understood the point of the show but liked it just the same)
Adventures of Tin Tin (now who took this off HBO?)-plan on buying this
CrashBox
Adventures of Captain Planet (teaches about recycling, catchy opening)
Thunder Cats
Pirates of Dark Water (Canceled before Ren finds all the 13 treasures of Lore)
Mysterious Cities of Gold (before my time, this is an '80s cartoon but I love it)-Plan on buying this.
Care Bears (I'm 23 amd I still try to watch this on Youtube)
Gummie Bears (like the show)
Inspector Gadget
Tale Spin
Chip N Dale Rescue Rangers
Darkwing Duck (love this)
Gargoyles (so buying this when I get the money)
Ducktales

Arabic Cartoons I like (these are from my husband's childhood which was the '80s)
Basma wa Abdo (I love this show and have it on DVD).
Sally
Floona (haven't watched all of this. Got to I think epsidode 12 maybe on Youtube but can't find it now).
Mawkli
Sanshiro (this is originally 37 episodes but the Arabs only translated 26)
Adnan wa Lina (bought this and waiting for it to arrive)
Jazeerat Al Kanz (I always liked the book Treasure Island)
Grendizer (this and Sanshiro are the only robot catoons I'll watch)
Heidi
Siwar Al Asal (seen up to episode 60. Found out this is really 91 episodes)
Moka Moka

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Should my 3rd grader still be counting on her fingers for math?

Q. She is 8 years old and has always disliked math. I try and help her and so does her dad. I am frustrated because I feel like she should know all her multiplication facts quickly...instead she counts on her fingers.Any suggestions for help. I am trying to avoid a tutor?

A. As a math teacher and tutor, I've found that students who don't memorize their math facts usually end up struggling in math. Some kids try to get by with figuring them out each time, but that takes so much time and effort that they have trouble understanding the rest of more complicated problems. Figuring the facts on your fingers may work for simple multiplication, but it makes it very hard to get your head around long division, or fractions, or algebra.

You don't need a tutor. You just need to have her work on her facts. There are computer games that you could have her use. Or have her drill with flashcards daily. Or my dad used to make me write them 100 times each. Or there are lots of games and books and gadgets at bookstores and educational stores; however you have her work on it, the main thing is she needs lots of practice. Lots and lots of practice. Until she knows them without having to stop and think about them.

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Children's electronic gadgets Vs playing outside in the nature?

Q. Nowadays there are thousands of different kinds of toys for children out there. However, I find it sad that these toys (especially the electronic gadgets) make children "loose contact" with nature? (i mean, quite a lot of them do not really play outside anymore). What do you think about this?

A. I agree. The concept of a lot of them is to be educational, atleast the ones for little kids, and that's all good. My daughter's got the leap pad and the leapster game system (and others!) and it's cool because she learns while she's
playing, but there is no substitute for hands on learning with another human being. We can't expect our children to learn everything from an electronic device, or even a book. We go outside and she can ask questions and we can discover things and it is so much more enriching to her mind. That totally beats sitting inside with some expensive toys because we get to spend time with each other at the same time.

I think that it also has a lot to do with the fact that a lot of moms are really busy these days. I think a big idea behind buying some of the toys is that it can keep the kids occupied by themselves so mom can get some work done, or just get a rest. Granted, if you're going to buy them, atleast get something educational instead of something that will load their minds with crap. Children need to have some sense of imagination as well to be mentally and emotionally stable. Nature presents a wonderful inspiration for children to be able to create their own fantasies. Not only that, playing outside and getting fresh air can aleve restlessness and boredom for children as well, allowing them to get a better nights sleep.

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What are the major problems in our educational systems??

Q.

A. Kids are forced to act like the kids in their age group, regardless of maturity level.
Sports have taken over as the priority.
Teachers are more worried about tenure and insurance benefits than teaching individual children. (Oh sure, they make a big SHOW of being concerned, but when the bell rings, they are just as fast to get to their cars as anyone.)
Gadgets have taken over the classrooms as more important than critical thinking.
Too much time and money is spent on teaching things that kids already know, or that their parents should be teaching (since we live in a fairly literate society, most kids should be required to read before starting school).
Kids start school too soon in most cases. They need to learn to behave and bond with family first.
Bus driving has become a contract sport to the lowest bidder, not a carefully planned and monitored part of the school districts.
Education has become something that 'someone else does' to our kids, rather than a part of life. Entertainment (including sports) has become more important and it shows in the way people respond to school boards and the way that schools have become 'activity' and administration -heavy.
Children will grow up, regardless of what we do. It is best to treat them like the individuals that they are, rather than force them all to squeeze through the molds of a very out-of-touch system that is run by emotional politics rather than critical design and thought.

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Best educational gadget for preschoolers and elementary age kids?

Q. I'm looking for a nice educational gadget for my 4 year old son. I thought I was going to get a LeapPad but then I heard about the Innotab and Nabi and other tablets and learning tools and now I'm not sure. Some entertainment value is fine but I'm learning primarily for something my son will love but it's educational. Thanks!
I'm looking, not learning lol
Money is an object so I def can't do an Ipad lol

A. We got a leapPad for my son last year and he loved it. He is a pretty good reader now and we still use it. The great thing is you can always by more advanced books for the leapPad as he gets older so he will be able to use it for a while. My son can read really well now and it was probally his favorite gift last year.

The Tag reading system and the smart cycle are also really fun and educational items for children

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Are teens showing signs of corruption these days?

Q. I don't think so but since I am in my 30s and haven't been by any local schools, I like to know how teens are doing these days.

Are the kids learning more with the internet age? I have a lot of hope for them, even with all the problems the youth carries early on. Teens always seem to have their share of worries.

A. Yes and No... I am early 40's with a son who is 23 yrs old. I have many friends who still have teenagers in the home.

Honestly, I am appalled at some of the things teens are doing these days...mostly because their parents don't actively monitor them, and teach them better. From sexting to nearly naked web cam chats...to shoplifting, theft/burglary, identity theft/fake ID's, problematic drug use, and trouble with the law for various reasons.

Teens have historically challenged authority, made stupid mistakes, and the like. It is a natural part of growing up and 'figuring it all out'. What surprises me is the ease and opportunity for corruption of young minds that the internet brings. I know 10 yr olds with iPhones, iPads, or other means to access the internet at will...and unregulated. Most teens know how to navigate easily, even circumvent parental controls. Driver's licenses aren't handed out just because a child wants one. There are benchmark requirements to obtain one...age, experience, insurance, etc. So, why aren't there such requirements in the average household for the internet? Lack of diligence by parents, and innocent spoiled kids who learn all they do from friends, internet, TV, movies, and such.

Young minds are impressionable. If a teenage honor student's friend from the cheerleading squad happens to 'show her the ropes' on social networking and sex-camming older guys for popularity purposes...well, is she going to do it? Depends on her instilled sense of morals and character...which is taught by her parents. It's the same as drinking and drug use. All a matter of choices and whether it's readily available...and what their friends are into.

No doubt the internet has it's good and bad. It can be an educational resource, a tool for communication, and more. But, on the bad side...concerning our children, it is full of predators, scammers, sex, violence, and sensationalism far beyond TV, video games and movies that are easily monitored.

I had a conversation with a friend this weekend who has a 5 yr old grandson. He woke up early, and his parents weren't ready to get up (it was extremely early in the morning...it was his birthday). He often grabs mom's phone to play games on it to pass time. Ok, I understand that. However, someone at one point showed him how to access internet on that iPhone and look at YouTube. His mother was shocked to find out he was watching pole dancing videos.. OMG! REALLY?

It can be an innocent thing where a child runs across something like this. But, teens often seek out 'cool' or 'interesting' things to share with friends...or sex things out of pure curiosity.

Go to the mall or to the movies some time. Look at how the teens act without parents around. Look at how the girls dress. Listen to the conversations they are having. See how people are so 'hooked' by their gadgets (phones, pads, etc). The internet is an 'alternate reality' with more interaction than TV and games. It is access to the world in all it's ways-good and bad, and vast.

It all boils down to responsibility, maturity, monitoring, parenting, morals and character taught at home.

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Help! How do I get my 6 yr old son to pay attention in school?

Q. My son is 6, almost 7 and he has developmental delays. He was never classified as autistic or having PDD, all we were ever told was he has a speech delay. My husband, inlaws, myself and his teacher and speech therapist are concerned with his inability to pay attention. He daydreams and "plays" video games in class (moves his hands and fingers like he's holding a controller). The teacher hasn't said it but I think she's thinking ADD or something similar. I've talked to friends with kids similar ages and they all say their kids do the same thing so I know part of it is just my son being a normal 6 year old. The problem he faces is when he drifts he risks getting lost and not being able to grasp what the rest of the class is working on. How can I teach him to stay focused on the task at hand and how to bring himself back when he does drift? Are there games we can play with him? He does watch too much tv, and I know I need to do something about that.

A. Honestly, you seem to have a pretty rough idea of what you need to do. Just stick with what you are doing and cut the cable off, and maybe take away the games. Just for a few months and see if he improves at school.

Yes, you are right. You do have a normal six year old boy. You could also try using some other sort of methods to increase his attention span.

1) TV Time Needs To Be Trimmed - A child's attention span only lasts about 8 to 10 minutes. Funny that 8 to 10 minutes is how long a television program is on for until it breaks for commercial.

2) Games and Gadgets - When it comes to game systems, just remove them from the picture. Two ways to do so, A) Take them from him while he is either using them or is around or B) Move them into a place where only you know the whereabouts when he is at school.

Some might also suggest using educational games to help but I have found that t defeats the purpose of taking away games all together. Besides, he needs to learn to stay focused and not get better hand eye coordination. Maybe to hone some math or english skills, but not for what you're dealing with right now.

I hope I could be of some help to you.

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Children's electronic gadgets Vs playing outside in the nature?

Q. Nowadays there are thousands of different kinds of toys for children out there. However, I find it sad that these toys (especially the electronic gadgets) make children "loose contact" with nature? (i mean, quite a lot of them do not really play outside anymore). What do you think about this?

A. I agree. The concept of a lot of them is to be educational, atleast the ones for little kids, and that's all good. My daughter's got the leap pad and the leapster game system (and others!) and it's cool because she learns while she's
playing, but there is no substitute for hands on learning with another human being. We can't expect our children to learn everything from an electronic device, or even a book. We go outside and she can ask questions and we can discover things and it is so much more enriching to her mind. That totally beats sitting inside with some expensive toys because we get to spend time with each other at the same time.

I think that it also has a lot to do with the fact that a lot of moms are really busy these days. I think a big idea behind buying some of the toys is that it can keep the kids occupied by themselves so mom can get some work done, or just get a rest. Granted, if you're going to buy them, atleast get something educational instead of something that will load their minds with crap. Children need to have some sense of imagination as well to be mentally and emotionally stable. Nature presents a wonderful inspiration for children to be able to create their own fantasies. Not only that, playing outside and getting fresh air can aleve restlessness and boredom for children as well, allowing them to get a better nights sleep.

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What are the major problems in our educational systems??

Q.

A. Kids are forced to act like the kids in their age group, regardless of maturity level.
Sports have taken over as the priority.
Teachers are more worried about tenure and insurance benefits than teaching individual children. (Oh sure, they make a big SHOW of being concerned, but when the bell rings, they are just as fast to get to their cars as anyone.)
Gadgets have taken over the classrooms as more important than critical thinking.
Too much time and money is spent on teaching things that kids already know, or that their parents should be teaching (since we live in a fairly literate society, most kids should be required to read before starting school).
Kids start school too soon in most cases. They need to learn to behave and bond with family first.
Bus driving has become a contract sport to the lowest bidder, not a carefully planned and monitored part of the school districts.
Education has become something that 'someone else does' to our kids, rather than a part of life. Entertainment (including sports) has become more important and it shows in the way people respond to school boards and the way that schools have become 'activity' and administration -heavy.
Children will grow up, regardless of what we do. It is best to treat them like the individuals that they are, rather than force them all to squeeze through the molds of a very out-of-touch system that is run by emotional politics rather than critical design and thought.

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What happened to the golden age of children's television?

Q. for the past 7-8 years cartoons have been utter crap

A. Society demanded that cartoon shows be "dumbed down" and educational. Parents became wimps and freak out if their kids hear a curse word or see violence in old cartoon shows. (Which is why I prefer the original Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles to the new one) and why I won't be letting my kids watch the stupid stuff on today. I am a kid of the 90s-2000s. This is what I remember watching:
Loony Toons (who was the idiot who took this off the air?)
Tales of the Crypt Keeper (the cartoon, though I did occassionally watch the show)
Sonic the Hedgehog (again the original, not the one today)
Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (the original)
Are You Afraid of the Dark (part of SNICK that ran from 5-9PM Monday through Friday)-will buy this
Land of the Lost
Dinosuar
Legends of the Hidden Temple (never understood the point of the show but liked it just the same)
Adventures of Tin Tin (now who took this off HBO?)-plan on buying this
CrashBox
Adventures of Captain Planet (teaches about recycling, catchy opening)
Thunder Cats
Pirates of Dark Water (Canceled before Ren finds all the 13 treasures of Lore)
Mysterious Cities of Gold (before my time, this is an '80s cartoon but I love it)-Plan on buying this.
Care Bears (I'm 23 amd I still try to watch this on Youtube)
Gummie Bears (like the show)
Inspector Gadget
Tale Spin
Chip N Dale Rescue Rangers
Darkwing Duck (love this)
Gargoyles (so buying this when I get the money)
Ducktales

Arabic Cartoons I like (these are from my husband's childhood which was the '80s)
Basma wa Abdo (I love this show and have it on DVD).
Sally
Floona (haven't watched all of this. Got to I think epsidode 12 maybe on Youtube but can't find it now).
Mawkli
Sanshiro (this is originally 37 episodes but the Arabs only translated 26)
Adnan wa Lina (bought this and waiting for it to arrive)
Jazeerat Al Kanz (I always liked the book Treasure Island)
Grendizer (this and Sanshiro are the only robot catoons I'll watch)
Heidi
Siwar Al Asal (seen up to episode 60. Found out this is really 91 episodes)
Moka Moka

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Should my 3rd grader still be counting on her fingers for math?

Q. She is 8 years old and has always disliked math. I try and help her and so does her dad. I am frustrated because I feel like she should know all her multiplication facts quickly...instead she counts on her fingers.Any suggestions for help. I am trying to avoid a tutor?

A. As a math teacher and tutor, I've found that students who don't memorize their math facts usually end up struggling in math. Some kids try to get by with figuring them out each time, but that takes so much time and effort that they have trouble understanding the rest of more complicated problems. Figuring the facts on your fingers may work for simple multiplication, but it makes it very hard to get your head around long division, or fractions, or algebra.

You don't need a tutor. You just need to have her work on her facts. There are computer games that you could have her use. Or have her drill with flashcards daily. Or my dad used to make me write them 100 times each. Or there are lots of games and books and gadgets at bookstores and educational stores; however you have her work on it, the main thing is she needs lots of practice. Lots and lots of practice. Until she knows them without having to stop and think about them.

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Do you think today's kids are better off than kids 50 year ago?

Q. With the modern world's electronic gadgets, the Internet, rules and regulations, political correctness, school standards, two-income homes, suburban living, etc., are children better off than 50 years ago? Or worse off?

A. That depends on which kids and what you mean by "better off." In general, kids today have more financial security, better health care, more educational and career opportunities, are safer and more protected, and face less prejudice and discrimination than kids of the 50's. On the other hand, they face more pressure to achieve, are more likely to experience their parents' divorce, spend more time in front of computers, eat less healthy foods, get less exercise, have to worry more about strangers and predators, and are expected to be mature at an early age.

I would say neither is better or worse than the other. But I personally would prefer the kind of childhood I had, which was closer to the generation of the 50's. I've tried to give my kids some of those same experiences.

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Children's electronic gadgets Vs playing outside in the nature?

Q. Nowadays there are thousands of different kinds of toys for children out there. However, I find it sad that these toys (especially the electronic gadgets) make children "loose contact" with nature? (i mean, quite a lot of them do not really play outside anymore). What do you think about this?

A. I agree. The concept of a lot of them is to be educational, atleast the ones for little kids, and that's all good. My daughter's got the leap pad and the leapster game system (and others!) and it's cool because she learns while she's
playing, but there is no substitute for hands on learning with another human being. We can't expect our children to learn everything from an electronic device, or even a book. We go outside and she can ask questions and we can discover things and it is so much more enriching to her mind. That totally beats sitting inside with some expensive toys because we get to spend time with each other at the same time.

I think that it also has a lot to do with the fact that a lot of moms are really busy these days. I think a big idea behind buying some of the toys is that it can keep the kids occupied by themselves so mom can get some work done, or just get a rest. Granted, if you're going to buy them, atleast get something educational instead of something that will load their minds with crap. Children need to have some sense of imagination as well to be mentally and emotionally stable. Nature presents a wonderful inspiration for children to be able to create their own fantasies. Not only that, playing outside and getting fresh air can aleve restlessness and boredom for children as well, allowing them to get a better nights sleep.

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Best educational gadget for preschoolers and elementary age kids?

Q. I'm looking for a nice educational gadget for my 4 year old son. I thought I was going to get a LeapPad but then I heard about the Innotab and Nabi and other tablets and learning tools and now I'm not sure. Some entertainment value is fine but I'm learning primarily for something my son will love but it's educational. Thanks!
I'm looking, not learning lol
Money is an object so I def can't do an Ipad lol

A. We got a leapPad for my son last year and he loved it. He is a pretty good reader now and we still use it. The great thing is you can always by more advanced books for the leapPad as he gets older so he will be able to use it for a while. My son can read really well now and it was probally his favorite gift last year.

The Tag reading system and the smart cycle are also really fun and educational items for children

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Are teens showing signs of corruption these days?

Q. I don't think so but since I am in my 30s and haven't been by any local schools, I like to know how teens are doing these days.

Are the kids learning more with the internet age? I have a lot of hope for them, even with all the problems the youth carries early on. Teens always seem to have their share of worries.

A. Yes and No... I am early 40's with a son who is 23 yrs old. I have many friends who still have teenagers in the home.

Honestly, I am appalled at some of the things teens are doing these days...mostly because their parents don't actively monitor them, and teach them better. From sexting to nearly naked web cam chats...to shoplifting, theft/burglary, identity theft/fake ID's, problematic drug use, and trouble with the law for various reasons.

Teens have historically challenged authority, made stupid mistakes, and the like. It is a natural part of growing up and 'figuring it all out'. What surprises me is the ease and opportunity for corruption of young minds that the internet brings. I know 10 yr olds with iPhones, iPads, or other means to access the internet at will...and unregulated. Most teens know how to navigate easily, even circumvent parental controls. Driver's licenses aren't handed out just because a child wants one. There are benchmark requirements to obtain one...age, experience, insurance, etc. So, why aren't there such requirements in the average household for the internet? Lack of diligence by parents, and innocent spoiled kids who learn all they do from friends, internet, TV, movies, and such.

Young minds are impressionable. If a teenage honor student's friend from the cheerleading squad happens to 'show her the ropes' on social networking and sex-camming older guys for popularity purposes...well, is she going to do it? Depends on her instilled sense of morals and character...which is taught by her parents. It's the same as drinking and drug use. All a matter of choices and whether it's readily available...and what their friends are into.

No doubt the internet has it's good and bad. It can be an educational resource, a tool for communication, and more. But, on the bad side...concerning our children, it is full of predators, scammers, sex, violence, and sensationalism far beyond TV, video games and movies that are easily monitored.

I had a conversation with a friend this weekend who has a 5 yr old grandson. He woke up early, and his parents weren't ready to get up (it was extremely early in the morning...it was his birthday). He often grabs mom's phone to play games on it to pass time. Ok, I understand that. However, someone at one point showed him how to access internet on that iPhone and look at YouTube. His mother was shocked to find out he was watching pole dancing videos.. OMG! REALLY?

It can be an innocent thing where a child runs across something like this. But, teens often seek out 'cool' or 'interesting' things to share with friends...or sex things out of pure curiosity.

Go to the mall or to the movies some time. Look at how the teens act without parents around. Look at how the girls dress. Listen to the conversations they are having. See how people are so 'hooked' by their gadgets (phones, pads, etc). The internet is an 'alternate reality' with more interaction than TV and games. It is access to the world in all it's ways-good and bad, and vast.

It all boils down to responsibility, maturity, monitoring, parenting, morals and character taught at home.

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Help! How do I get my 6 yr old son to pay attention in school?

Q. My son is 6, almost 7 and he has developmental delays. He was never classified as autistic or having PDD, all we were ever told was he has a speech delay. My husband, inlaws, myself and his teacher and speech therapist are concerned with his inability to pay attention. He daydreams and "plays" video games in class (moves his hands and fingers like he's holding a controller). The teacher hasn't said it but I think she's thinking ADD or something similar. I've talked to friends with kids similar ages and they all say their kids do the same thing so I know part of it is just my son being a normal 6 year old. The problem he faces is when he drifts he risks getting lost and not being able to grasp what the rest of the class is working on. How can I teach him to stay focused on the task at hand and how to bring himself back when he does drift? Are there games we can play with him? He does watch too much tv, and I know I need to do something about that.

A. Honestly, you seem to have a pretty rough idea of what you need to do. Just stick with what you are doing and cut the cable off, and maybe take away the games. Just for a few months and see if he improves at school.

Yes, you are right. You do have a normal six year old boy. You could also try using some other sort of methods to increase his attention span.

1) TV Time Needs To Be Trimmed - A child's attention span only lasts about 8 to 10 minutes. Funny that 8 to 10 minutes is how long a television program is on for until it breaks for commercial.

2) Games and Gadgets - When it comes to game systems, just remove them from the picture. Two ways to do so, A) Take them from him while he is either using them or is around or B) Move them into a place where only you know the whereabouts when he is at school.

Some might also suggest using educational games to help but I have found that t defeats the purpose of taking away games all together. Besides, he needs to learn to stay focused and not get better hand eye coordination. Maybe to hone some math or english skills, but not for what you're dealing with right now.

I hope I could be of some help to you.

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Is a plasma ball a safe gadget for a ten year old boy to have?

Q. I must admit that electricity scares the heck out of me, and I want to make sure that I'm not being overprotective. Are there any dangers to be aware of when giving one these lamps to a child (besides the obvious safe operation needed for any electrical device)?

A. Notwithstanding the fearmongering comments above, a plasma ball is perfectly safe. It will not generate waves or fields or anything else that would endanger a kid's life.

That said, a plasma ball is not particularly educational. If it inspires him to learn more, great, but if education is your objective, a kit of science or electronic projects would be a better choice.

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Who do you believe will do better in creating higher paying jobs, Democrats or Republicans?

Q. Both Democrats and Republicans agree on one thing for sure...we need more jobs! The problem is that they differ in how to create those higher paying jobs. Democrats believe in a Keynesian approach by increasing infrastructure spending by asking the upper class to share a higher percentage of the burden during a recession, and the Republicans seem to believe reducing taxes and regulations will stimulate entrepreneurship to create higher paying jobs. Both appear to have historical examples. I want to know which is the better example, and why?

A. Well this, "is so, so clear... Democrats "just love to spend" money on not just infrastructure, but like FDR, (back in a day) "create programs" that (were/are revelant) to "the needs" of the people during their time. Infrastructure, (is one great avenue) in job creation, but, the world "is ever changing", and at such a rapid pace from a technological standpoint, that America (as President Obama) has said, needs "to keep in step" with that profound fact, and beef up the "educational skills" in the way of technology and starting with our kids, like "the handle" we had on (making and creating) great cars... we need "to outbeat" the Asians, when it comes to "creativity with technology." We "need to produce" more Steve Jobs, that is all there is to it!!!!! (smile...)

**The Asians, "have us beat", (3 to 1) with that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Like Howard Hughes, said regarding aviation, "technology" (along with ecology/substainability) "is the wave" of the future, and that "is where" we need to go and be as Americans, here in the United States..."OUTDOING EVERYONE" ELSE. Also, it would not hurt, to utilize this "technology" for other uses, not just here in America, but world-wide like:

1. Aids/Medical Equipment
2. Environmental/Green Substainability
3. Food Sources
4. Automotive
5. Gadgets, of economic, effective and efficient use (like the Swedes and Germany)
and last but "most certainly" not least...
6. "EDUCATION, EDUCATION" AND "MORE EDUCATION", this also is why, "the creativity and ingenuity" is getting lost, on our part as America. Europeans somewhat, "laughs at us", from that end as well... (dah, never mind)

That is just a few thoughts and examples...(smile)

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My friend has cool gadgets and always manages to impress me during sleepovers. How do I do the same to her?

Q. My friend has gadgets such as a Nintendo DS, Game Boy Advance, and Wii. She also has a pet dog. When I go over for sleepovers, I always have lots of fun at her house. But when she comes over, I don't know how to use the time since I don't have the GBA or Wii. We both aren't big fans of games and we'd like something to do. We both have a love of animals and I have a pet hamster. How do I make a good sleepover?

A. You could ask her to bring over some of the gadgets so that you can play at your house too. But if you don't like that idea, then I wouldn't try to compete in the same area. Rather, don't try to compete in the area of technology, because it sounds like she will always be one step ahead with that.

That doesn't mean that technology is the only fun thing though! Think about what you do at your house that is fun to you. Share those things with her. Is there something fun to do outside? Do you have board games? Particularly good movies? Could you get some craft supplies and make something? Baking food is always fun. You could decorate cookies together o there's always decorating a cake - you both could decorate your own privately and then share them to see how different they are.

If you both really like animals, and you have a hamster, you could think of something fun to do with the hamster. Maybe make a fun contraption for the hamster to play in (like a big maze if you have an active hamster!). Or build it a house.

There's a lot to make sleepovers fun and it doesn't have to involve games! In fact, it's much better for you in the long run if you do something active (like exercise) or "educational" (educational can definitely be fun!). All of the above will probably teach you a lot more than playing video games for hours. Ask your parents to look for books on fun science experiments (or search online for fun science experiments for kids). There are lots of really fun, surprising things for people of all ages to do. Next time try mixing some corn starch and water and see how weird that substance is... :)

Overall, let it be something that's fun to you and then likely it will be fun to her too.

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Help! How do I get my 6 yr old son to pay attention in school?

Q. My son is 6, almost 7 and he has developmental delays. He was never classified as autistic or having PDD, all we were ever told was he has a speech delay. My husband, inlaws, myself and his teacher and speech therapist are concerned with his inability to pay attention. He daydreams and "plays" video games in class (moves his hands and fingers like he's holding a controller). The teacher hasn't said it but I think she's thinking ADD or something similar. I've talked to friends with kids similar ages and they all say their kids do the same thing so I know part of it is just my son being a normal 6 year old. The problem he faces is when he drifts he risks getting lost and not being able to grasp what the rest of the class is working on. How can I teach him to stay focused on the task at hand and how to bring himself back when he does drift? Are there games we can play with him? He does watch too much tv, and I know I need to do something about that.

A. Honestly, you seem to have a pretty rough idea of what you need to do. Just stick with what you are doing and cut the cable off, and maybe take away the games. Just for a few months and see if he improves at school.

Yes, you are right. You do have a normal six year old boy. You could also try using some other sort of methods to increase his attention span.

1) TV Time Needs To Be Trimmed - A child's attention span only lasts about 8 to 10 minutes. Funny that 8 to 10 minutes is how long a television program is on for until it breaks for commercial.

2) Games and Gadgets - When it comes to game systems, just remove them from the picture. Two ways to do so, A) Take them from him while he is either using them or is around or B) Move them into a place where only you know the whereabouts when he is at school.

Some might also suggest using educational games to help but I have found that t defeats the purpose of taking away games all together. Besides, he needs to learn to stay focused and not get better hand eye coordination. Maybe to hone some math or english skills, but not for what you're dealing with right now.

I hope I could be of some help to you.

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Is a plasma ball a safe gadget for a ten year old boy to have?

Q. I must admit that electricity scares the heck out of me, and I want to make sure that I'm not being overprotective. Are there any dangers to be aware of when giving one these lamps to a child (besides the obvious safe operation needed for any electrical device)?

A. Notwithstanding the fearmongering comments above, a plasma ball is perfectly safe. It will not generate waves or fields or anything else that would endanger a kid's life.

That said, a plasma ball is not particularly educational. If it inspires him to learn more, great, but if education is your objective, a kit of science or electronic projects would be a better choice.

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Who do you believe will do better in creating higher paying jobs, Democrats or Republicans?

Q. Both Democrats and Republicans agree on one thing for sure...we need more jobs! The problem is that they differ in how to create those higher paying jobs. Democrats believe in a Keynesian approach by increasing infrastructure spending by asking the upper class to share a higher percentage of the burden during a recession, and the Republicans seem to believe reducing taxes and regulations will stimulate entrepreneurship to create higher paying jobs. Both appear to have historical examples. I want to know which is the better example, and why?

A. Well this, "is so, so clear... Democrats "just love to spend" money on not just infrastructure, but like FDR, (back in a day) "create programs" that (were/are revelant) to "the needs" of the people during their time. Infrastructure, (is one great avenue) in job creation, but, the world "is ever changing", and at such a rapid pace from a technological standpoint, that America (as President Obama) has said, needs "to keep in step" with that profound fact, and beef up the "educational skills" in the way of technology and starting with our kids, like "the handle" we had on (making and creating) great cars... we need "to outbeat" the Asians, when it comes to "creativity with technology." We "need to produce" more Steve Jobs, that is all there is to it!!!!! (smile...)

**The Asians, "have us beat", (3 to 1) with that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Like Howard Hughes, said regarding aviation, "technology" (along with ecology/substainability) "is the wave" of the future, and that "is where" we need to go and be as Americans, here in the United States..."OUTDOING EVERYONE" ELSE. Also, it would not hurt, to utilize this "technology" for other uses, not just here in America, but world-wide like:

1. Aids/Medical Equipment
2. Environmental/Green Substainability
3. Food Sources
4. Automotive
5. Gadgets, of economic, effective and efficient use (like the Swedes and Germany)
and last but "most certainly" not least...
6. "EDUCATION, EDUCATION" AND "MORE EDUCATION", this also is why, "the creativity and ingenuity" is getting lost, on our part as America. Europeans somewhat, "laughs at us", from that end as well... (dah, never mind)

That is just a few thoughts and examples...(smile)

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My friend has cool gadgets and always manages to impress me during sleepovers. How do I do the same to her?

Q. My friend has gadgets such as a Nintendo DS, Game Boy Advance, and Wii. She also has a pet dog. When I go over for sleepovers, I always have lots of fun at her house. But when she comes over, I don't know how to use the time since I don't have the GBA or Wii. We both aren't big fans of games and we'd like something to do. We both have a love of animals and I have a pet hamster. How do I make a good sleepover?

A. You could ask her to bring over some of the gadgets so that you can play at your house too. But if you don't like that idea, then I wouldn't try to compete in the same area. Rather, don't try to compete in the area of technology, because it sounds like she will always be one step ahead with that.

That doesn't mean that technology is the only fun thing though! Think about what you do at your house that is fun to you. Share those things with her. Is there something fun to do outside? Do you have board games? Particularly good movies? Could you get some craft supplies and make something? Baking food is always fun. You could decorate cookies together o there's always decorating a cake - you both could decorate your own privately and then share them to see how different they are.

If you both really like animals, and you have a hamster, you could think of something fun to do with the hamster. Maybe make a fun contraption for the hamster to play in (like a big maze if you have an active hamster!). Or build it a house.

There's a lot to make sleepovers fun and it doesn't have to involve games! In fact, it's much better for you in the long run if you do something active (like exercise) or "educational" (educational can definitely be fun!). All of the above will probably teach you a lot more than playing video games for hours. Ask your parents to look for books on fun science experiments (or search online for fun science experiments for kids). There are lots of really fun, surprising things for people of all ages to do. Next time try mixing some corn starch and water and see how weird that substance is... :)

Overall, let it be something that's fun to you and then likely it will be fun to her too.

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Should my 3rd grader still be counting on her fingers for math?

Q. She is 8 years old and has always disliked math. I try and help her and so does her dad. I am frustrated because I feel like she should know all her multiplication facts quickly...instead she counts on her fingers.Any suggestions for help. I am trying to avoid a tutor?

A. As a math teacher and tutor, I've found that students who don't memorize their math facts usually end up struggling in math. Some kids try to get by with figuring them out each time, but that takes so much time and effort that they have trouble understanding the rest of more complicated problems. Figuring the facts on your fingers may work for simple multiplication, but it makes it very hard to get your head around long division, or fractions, or algebra.

You don't need a tutor. You just need to have her work on her facts. There are computer games that you could have her use. Or have her drill with flashcards daily. Or my dad used to make me write them 100 times each. Or there are lots of games and books and gadgets at bookstores and educational stores; however you have her work on it, the main thing is she needs lots of practice. Lots and lots of practice. Until she knows them without having to stop and think about them.

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Children's electronic gadgets Vs playing outside in the nature?

Q. Nowadays there are thousands of different kinds of toys for children out there. However, I find it sad that these toys (especially the electronic gadgets) make children "loose contact" with nature? (i mean, quite a lot of them do not really play outside anymore). What do you think about this?

A. I agree. The concept of a lot of them is to be educational, atleast the ones for little kids, and that's all good. My daughter's got the leap pad and the leapster game system (and others!) and it's cool because she learns while she's
playing, but there is no substitute for hands on learning with another human being. We can't expect our children to learn everything from an electronic device, or even a book. We go outside and she can ask questions and we can discover things and it is so much more enriching to her mind. That totally beats sitting inside with some expensive toys because we get to spend time with each other at the same time.

I think that it also has a lot to do with the fact that a lot of moms are really busy these days. I think a big idea behind buying some of the toys is that it can keep the kids occupied by themselves so mom can get some work done, or just get a rest. Granted, if you're going to buy them, atleast get something educational instead of something that will load their minds with crap. Children need to have some sense of imagination as well to be mentally and emotionally stable. Nature presents a wonderful inspiration for children to be able to create their own fantasies. Not only that, playing outside and getting fresh air can aleve restlessness and boredom for children as well, allowing them to get a better nights sleep.

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