Jill Tregr
Looking for the best toys for baby that are affordable. We are buying tons of toys and we are trying to cut down on expenses so what toys for baby would you recommend we get?
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Babies at this age need basic toys, and not all the expensive electronic gadgets.
I would look for something that encourages the baby to crawl/cruise - often toys where you push a button down, and then the toy moves further ahead.
musical toys are always a hit. I would look for something that encourages cause and effect, and better hand/eye coordination - xylophones, drums (which you can make out of an empty plastic container and a small wooden spoon), tambourines, bells, maracas and rainmakers. There are lots of baby-proof toys out there, and the baby sets can be fairly inexpensive because they are plastic and small. Also nothing wrong with pots, pans, plastic containers and wooden spoons, and spatulas.
Books - this is so important for speech development, learning how to read, setting the precedent for enjoying reading, and getting some quality time with a parent or caregiver. There are all different types of books for babies and preschoolers, just be prepared for some chewing. I still buy board books for my toddler and preschooler, because they are cheaper than the paper ones. And, some of the board books have the entire story and illustrations for 1/2 the price. Get a family library membership - libraries also offer story time even for babies.
Stacking toys and shape sorters - Wal-mart and TRU each make their own cheaper version than Fisher Price, but the FP is a thicker plastic. Be prepared that your baby will not be able to sort shapes for quite awhile. Stacking toys just need to be varying degrees of sizes, shapes and colors (to help differentiate the shape, and keep their interest). Great for hand/eye coordination and motor skills.
Blocks - get something that is easier to grasp in their small hand - larger, or squeezable, or even small. Just not too small that they are a choking hazard. TRU and Wal-mart each have their own knockoffs, which will save you a bunch of money.
Balls - I would get a bunch of softer balls. I would buy them in different sizes. If you have trouble finding them, my toddlers seem to be into the dogâs balls (we wonât go there). I donât mind because they are indestructible (no chewing off small pieces) and most are squeezable.
And a couple of plastic containers in which to put stuff in. The stuff can be the shapes from the shape sorter, blocks, balls or other small toys. Older babies like to put stuff into a container, dump this into another container or out on the floor.
Babies are fascinated with themselves (actually I think they just see "other" babies). One of our babies went to daycare. They have a mirror, mounted behind Plexiglas) that was about 3 feet tall and 6 feet long. All the babies and toddlers were fascinated with it. A small unbreakable mirror would do. We hooked up a baby car mirror (unbreakable), that was too small for the car, up to the side of the coffee table (in this house we attached it to the railing that runs along the living room).
And the very best toy is YOU! Babies want to interact with their parents/caregivers. They want to play interactive games like Peek-a-boo, or pat-a-cake or sing nursery rhymes or childrenâs songs. This is the best place to find the tunes and lyrics for nursery rhymes http://kids.niehs.nih.gov/musicchild.htm Because I was never great at remembering the tune or the lyrics, or both.
Babies at this age need basic toys, and not all the expensive electronic gadgets.
I would look for something that encourages the baby to crawl/cruise - often toys where you push a button down, and then the toy moves further ahead.
musical toys are always a hit. I would look for something that encourages cause and effect, and better hand/eye coordination - xylophones, drums (which you can make out of an empty plastic container and a small wooden spoon), tambourines, bells, maracas and rainmakers. There are lots of baby-proof toys out there, and the baby sets can be fairly inexpensive because they are plastic and small. Also nothing wrong with pots, pans, plastic containers and wooden spoons, and spatulas.
Books - this is so important for speech development, learning how to read, setting the precedent for enjoying reading, and getting some quality time with a parent or caregiver. There are all different types of books for babies and preschoolers, just be prepared for some chewing. I still buy board books for my toddler and preschooler, because they are cheaper than the paper ones. And, some of the board books have the entire story and illustrations for 1/2 the price. Get a family library membership - libraries also offer story time even for babies.
Stacking toys and shape sorters - Wal-mart and TRU each make their own cheaper version than Fisher Price, but the FP is a thicker plastic. Be prepared that your baby will not be able to sort shapes for quite awhile. Stacking toys just need to be varying degrees of sizes, shapes and colors (to help differentiate the shape, and keep their interest). Great for hand/eye coordination and motor skills.
Blocks - get something that is easier to grasp in their small hand - larger, or squeezable, or even small. Just not too small that they are a choking hazard. TRU and Wal-mart each have their own knockoffs, which will save you a bunch of money.
Balls - I would get a bunch of softer balls. I would buy them in different sizes. If you have trouble finding them, my toddlers seem to be into the dogâs balls (we wonât go there). I donât mind because they are indestructible (no chewing off small pieces) and most are squeezable.
And a couple of plastic containers in which to put stuff in. The stuff can be the shapes from the shape sorter, blocks, balls or other small toys. Older babies like to put stuff into a container, dump this into another container or out on the floor.
Babies are fascinated with themselves (actually I think they just see "other" babies). One of our babies went to daycare. They have a mirror, mounted behind Plexiglas) that was about 3 feet tall and 6 feet long. All the babies and toddlers were fascinated with it. A small unbreakable mirror would do. We hooked up a baby car mirror (unbreakable), that was too small for the car, up to the side of the coffee table (in this house we attached it to the railing that runs along the living room).
And the very best toy is YOU! Babies want to interact with their parents/caregivers. They want to play interactive games like Peek-a-boo, or pat-a-cake or sing nursery rhymes or childrenâs songs. This is the best place to find the tunes and lyrics for nursery rhymes http://kids.niehs.nih.gov/musicchild.htm Because I was never great at remembering the tune or the lyrics, or both.
Do you think that the toys you give your baby can effect developmental milestones?
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My 9 month old girl has recently grown out of her "baby" toys. I want to get her more age appropriate toys but I don't have a lot of money. She has little stacking nesting toys but she doesn't have blocks or anything that she can pull behind her. She has a ball that lights up and says shapes, colors, animals, and plays music. I think she's bored of it though. I hope my lack of money is not effecting her growth. I play with her all day. (I'm a stay at home mom) I sing to her, read to her, roll around on the floor with her. lol Do you think it's enough? I feel guilty she doesn't have the proper toys.
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Kids are more happy with things that are not toys. My son has a living room full of toys, and what does he like to play with the most? The remotes, the coasters, an empty box, paper (well he eats that!)...Anyway, the point is it isn't so much about the toys as it is about the time you spend with your child and the lessons you teach. What do you think they use to do before they made all these gadgets? It is so much more important to be spending the quality time that you are with your child. You can make everyday things a learning experience. If your outside you can saw see the green grass? Look at the bird, the bird goes chirp chirp and so on. Those lessons are so much more valuable than having expensive toys. Plus your child will be able to her imagination and thought processing skills. You are doing fine and do not worry so much about toys. Your child needs your love more than any toy out there.
Kids are more happy with things that are not toys. My son has a living room full of toys, and what does he like to play with the most? The remotes, the coasters, an empty box, paper (well he eats that!)...Anyway, the point is it isn't so much about the toys as it is about the time you spend with your child and the lessons you teach. What do you think they use to do before they made all these gadgets? It is so much more important to be spending the quality time that you are with your child. You can make everyday things a learning experience. If your outside you can saw see the green grass? Look at the bird, the bird goes chirp chirp and so on. Those lessons are so much more valuable than having expensive toys. Plus your child will be able to her imagination and thought processing skills. You are doing fine and do not worry so much about toys. Your child needs your love more than any toy out there.
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